noooo... dont wanna do fyp! *sulk*
its xmas and post xmas and pre new year! so many holidays!
life as per normal when i am home. so sian.
no life..
no money..
complain complain complain. lol..
i think i shouldnt blog unless theres exciting happenings. or all u see is bored and complaints.
okay highlights of this month.
went to shop for presents and baked cookies for my love, jo, jj and kw!
met up with jiemeis for gifts exchange! thanks girls, for all your xmas presents! dinner was at chong qing huo guo and den exchange gifts at bugis mac.
went out with dear to watch 2 ultra fav of month movies, avatar and sherlock holmes. seats were hard to get, so we booked in advance. in fact i watched avatar twice. haha.
dear's house xmas party! ate buffet at his place before we went out for ktv with mike.
michael came back from taiwan, so went with dear to meet him and frens. ate dinner at manhanttan. and 2 days later, we went singing at kbox in jurong safra. clara came back from shanghai too! so she joined us for singing session.
my brother's 21st bday! i didnt help out much, but the party is a success with his frens' help. in fact, i just came back from aloha loyang.
i distinctively rmb these events cos this is the only time ive gone out so many times since like 2 months ago? =.=
okay gg now.. good nite people!
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Sunday, December 13, 2009
wang show me this article..
i think it should relate to all people out there, whether its friends or couple:
Building the Bond in your Relationship
A bond (relationship wise) is when two people have a connection. Being attracted to each other and sharing common values and interests brought the two of you together as a couple, but the bond has not been set completely. Besides the fact that you have love and care between you, you also need to see whether or not the two of you are friends. Is it possible to be friends? Absolutely! As a matter of fact, it is a must if the two of you are going to build a lasting bond.
A true friendship is basically the same as the true qualities that define real love. The difference is, we are in love and have a deep desire for our mates, with commitment and a goal of building a future, and perhaps even getting married and making a family together. The list below will help you see if your lover is a friend to you as well
Do not feel guilty for having higher expectations from your lover either. People often feel like they should be more lenient and understanding when it comes to their lovers. Even though it is important to keep an understanding attitude (to avoid misunderstandings and arguments), you should never let things always slide or make up excuses for your partner?s wrong doings. You should expect better and not except such behavior. You deserve better. After all, you invest most of your emotions and time into your partner, so always remember that you are entitled to receive the same.
For more on this article, go to http://www.love-sessions.com/building_bond.htm
i think it should relate to all people out there, whether its friends or couple:
Building the Bond in your Relationship
A bond (relationship wise) is when two people have a connection. Being attracted to each other and sharing common values and interests brought the two of you together as a couple, but the bond has not been set completely. Besides the fact that you have love and care between you, you also need to see whether or not the two of you are friends. Is it possible to be friends? Absolutely! As a matter of fact, it is a must if the two of you are going to build a lasting bond.
A true friendship is basically the same as the true qualities that define real love. The difference is, we are in love and have a deep desire for our mates, with commitment and a goal of building a future, and perhaps even getting married and making a family together. The list below will help you see if your lover is a friend to you as well
- You can talk to and confide in each other about anything.
- Your partner is there for you when you need to talk to someone.
- Being able to always rely on each other when one is counted on.
- Having a permanent shoulder to cry on when we need it
- Having many things in common
- Accepting one another for who we are
- Listening to us and considering our opinions important
Do not feel guilty for having higher expectations from your lover either. People often feel like they should be more lenient and understanding when it comes to their lovers. Even though it is important to keep an understanding attitude (to avoid misunderstandings and arguments), you should never let things always slide or make up excuses for your partner?s wrong doings. You should expect better and not except such behavior. You deserve better. After all, you invest most of your emotions and time into your partner, so always remember that you are entitled to receive the same.
For more on this article, go to http://www.love-sessions.com/building_bond.htm