Now I should know why everytime a couple argues, they are getting more and more upset.

If you still remember my previous quotes, mistakes that men make is often not giving the women right to be upset and then tell them why they shouldnt be and give them solutions or explanations.

"The last thing a woman needs when she is on her way down is someone telling her why shouldnt be down. What she needs is someone to be with her as she goes down, to listen to her while she shares her feelings, and to empathize with what is going through. Even if a man cant fully understand why a woman feels overwhelmed, he can offer his love, attention and support.

"Telling a woman she shouldnt feel hurt is about the worst thing a man can say. It hurts her even more, like poking a stick into an open wound."

"When a woman is feeling hurt, she may sound as if she is blaming him. But if she is given care and understanding, the blame will disapper. Trying to explain to her why she shouldnt be hurt will make matters much worse."

"What she needs is his understanding of why she is hurting."

"Most couples start out arguing about one thing and, within 5 minutes, are arguing about the way they are arguing."

"It is not what we say that hurts but how we says it."

"He is aware neither of how uncaring he sounds nor of how hurtful this is to his partner. At such times, a simple disagreement may sound like an attack to a woman; a request turns into an order. Naturally a woman feels resistant to this unloving approach, even when she would be otherwise receptive to the content of what he was saying."

"Because he does not understand her reaction, he focuses more on explaining the merit of what is saying instead of correcting the way he is saying it."

"He has no idea that he is starting an argument; he thinks she is arguing with him. He defends his point of view while she defends herself from his sharpened expressions, which are hurtful to her."

A common male/female basic patten:

1. A woman expresses her upset feelings about "XYZ."
	2. A man explains why she should't be upset about "XYZ."
3. She feels invalidated and becomes more upset. (She is now more upset about being invalidated than about "XYZ.")
	4. He feels her disapproval and becomes upset. He blames her for upsetting him and expects an apology before making up.
5. She apologizes and wonders what happened, or she becomes more upset and the argument escalates into a battle.

"To avoid painful arguments it is important to recoginize how men unknowingly invalidate and how unknowingly women send messages of dispproval."

Get to know yourself better

Your view on yourself:

You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You are not looking merely for a girl/boyfriend - you are looking for your life partner. Perhaps you should be more open-minded about who you spend time with. The person you are looking for might hide their charm under their exterior.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:

Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.

Your views on education

Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:

You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.

What are you most afraid of:

You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.

Who is your true self:

You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

I did what I have planned in the morning - shopped till drop. And there lying on my sofa are my goods for shopping today!

Met dear at orchard, planning in my mind to start buying clothes already. =D

Firstly, of cos, is to go eat my lunch. We bought lotsa food, including icecream and the yucky chocolate soybean at taka foodfest. Yes, the one we went to last wed.

Hmm. Walked around taka, trying to find a bag again. Came to some cd shop beside giordano and then finally sat down at the resting area. A girl's period is still a bearable stuff. But not while you are walking for long. Walked abit more and rest alot more. And at last, I am able to move much without difficulty.

I started to pull dear into forever21 with me. Bought 2 shorts and 2 blouses there. Absolutely happy about them! And then we went in to zara. Tried clothes and bought all 3 of them at a sale price. Double happiness!

Was thinking of going bugis too. But dear says theres zing in far east too. So we walked there. Still didnt find any bags. But I just went into one shop and bought another bottom. LOL.

Okay, so there I was abit guilty for spending and so have to stop. Didnt buy anymore but merely walking around with dear. Ate our dinner at some noodle stall. Fishhead beehoon was good, well, you can assume I was hungry, but still, it was quite nice. Dear had beef noodle and well, I didnt took much of that 'cos it doesnt look ..

Well, anyway, dear saw love while we ate! She was with her colleagues too! What a concidence! She came in to say hi and then went off. =) After eating, we went home.

I am so delighted to have gotten my clothes. Shoes and bag doesnt really matter to me, for I dont need them, just yet. Haha. But the price you have to pay, tsk tsk. Both your physical endurance and the contents in your wallet.

Alright, have to start saving now. Stop asking me for shopping anymore. I fear that I cannot control once I start.

The worst decision for a girl, is to wonder what to wear to a place to meet other people. And so is it for me. School is starting, and I begin to realise my wardrobe needs a little change. GSS is going soon, so I'd better do it now! Hurry while stock lasts! LOL.

By the way, the way I dress during my SIM yr 1, is totally hideous. I wonder how I can survive during those days? Argh. Besides I am studying in a IT course, where girls are considered rare inside classes.

Shopping starting from now! I dont wanna care whether to save anot already. Holiday is going to be over anyway. I just need to maintain some figures ($$ not shape, dont laugh). Haha. Every single time, huh? =X Okok. Not funny.

Where is the best place to shop, my sisters? Drop a hint, please.

I think I havent been out in the open for too long. Which is why it feels wierd walking along orchard, or just out. Im like caging myself when its time for holidays.

I am delaying everything that I planned to do for my holidays. Hopefully those will get done before school starts. Huh? Those plans are just teeny weeny things. Haha.

Right. Next on yesterday's outing with jiemeis.

Met kw and jo at orchard around 6.30pm(sheesh, 'bit guilty for being late). Roamed around before deciding what place to have dinner in. I just suggested Crystal Jade. Ordered a "lang zai jok" (porridge) for kw, a roasted duck noodle(jo) and a cantonese "zha jiang mian" for me. So unfortunately, the "zha jiang mian" didnt taste like what it sounded to be. We waited for love to arrive before I asked her to share fried rice with me. Hah.

After dinner, we walked around giordano and then went in Isetan to windowshop. I saw Winnie, my sec sch friend, but I didnt say hi, she didnt notice me either. Betty didnt get the cardigan she wanted and so we moved on to the The Face Shop. I bought a pore minimiser and betty bought nail polish remover. Next, we headed to Sasa. Love bought tons of stuffs while I managed to get a brush for blusher. LOL. Anyway, I dropped my jade! *Gasped* I screamed when it dropped. Not because I dropped something, but because I know that is an expensive jade that my mum bought for me from Cheena. I thought she was going to kill me. But when I got home and told her, she just replied, "huh? where u drop? U wasted my 1k. *Shrugged* I dont know. Keep it lor." Whew. *Sweat*

Oh and the bloody bus. I stood all the way 'cause I boarded the bus at orchard Mrt and there was already no seats. My feets were aching like mad, as though all the blood flow down to my legs. I tried to bend my knees and it just made me look like an idiot. So I just keep moving my feets but it aint gotten any better. and the 2 aunties in front of me, Oh my godness! They wont bloody shuddup! Talk and talk like nobody's business. Finally when the bus came to the residents' areas, I was able to get a seat. And oh, I was feeling heaven for the first time! Haha. It was pouring. Mum called to see where I was. She brought umbrella for me to the bus stop. *Touched* She should be sleeping by that time though.

Urm, I watched abit of korean drama before going to sleep.

And up till now, the sky is still cloudy and I predict its going to rain anytime soon. LOL.

453th(My BLK haha) posts!

Today:

My bro and I went Jp for lunch at Mos burger. Dear joined us when we finished and then we went in the cinema to watch Harry Potter and the Order of Phoenix. Hem, show's not bad except for the atmosphere. 'Cos its on a weekday, few ppl were there to watch it. And without the noise of the children makes the show seems abit dull. Haha.

After the movie, we went to find Wii games. Its having a 5% discount where we bought our Wii package there. Bought a Resident Evil 4 and WarioWare Smooth moves.

Had food at food court. Dear went EC to cut his hair while gw went home first. We went home after his hair cutting. Had tremendous fun playing Wii with kevin and gw. LOL

Anyway, bro booked in around 9pm and kevin went home around 10pm. I continued playing the new bought Smooth Moves. Well, thats about it. Shall update more next week I guess. See ya around.

What Jealousy means:

To a man: Don't be ridiculous! We are just friends! (thinks she's just over sensitive)

To a woman: Oh, you are so cute! =D (thinks he's over-reacting, but knows she means alot to him)

I met my brother at JP to buy a Wii yesterday. Gw bought another Oblivion expansion and a bag.

The Wii package: 2 wiimotes, 2 nanchuks, 1 game and the console.

Other shops are selling only 2 wiimote, 1 nanchuck, 1 game and console. This shop that we bought wii in, give a really cheap price for another nanchuk. By the way, nanchuk is a joystick-like remote. It is to connect to the wiimote, so a player might need a wiimote and a nanchuk to play a game, eg. boxing.

Wii Trailer:


Pity I haven't got all the games I wanted play yet.

We played until our arm ache LOL. And it sure is feeling sore now. Its so fun, whoever wants to play too can come to my house. But I have only 2 wiimotes. Haha. Buying another wiimote and nanchuk cost 100plus alone, without the package. Well, thats about it.

Went coffee bean for tea(and i mean seriously, tea) and 1 mudpie. After that we took a cab home.

Quotes 2:

1. A man becomes fully receptive to and appreciative of the six kinds of love primarily needed by women (caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation, and reassurance) when his own primary needs are first fulfilled. Likewise a woman needs trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement. But before she can truly value ana appreciate these kinds of love, her primary needs first must be fulfilled.

2. When a Martian expresses his caring and understanding, a Venusian automatically begins to reciprocate and return to him the trust and acceptance that he primarily needs. The same thing happens when a Venusian expresses her trust - a Martian automatically will begin to reciprocate with the caring she needs.

3. When his behaviour takes into consideration her thoughts and feelings, she is sure to feel respected. Concrete and physical expressions of respect, like flowers and remembering anniversaries, are essential to fulfill a woman's third primary love need. When she feels respected it is much easier for her to give her man the appreciation that he deserves.


HOW YOU MAY BE UNKNOWINGLY TURNING OFF YOUR PARTNER

Mistakes women commonly make	Why he doesn't feel loved
1. She tries to improve his behaviour or help him by offering unsolicited advice.	1. He feels unloved becaused she doesn't trust him anymore.
2. She tries to change or control his behavior by sharing her upset or negative feelings. (It is OK to share feelings but not when they attempt to manipulate or punish.)	2. He feels unloved because she doesn't accept him as he is.
3. She doesn't acknowledge what he does for her buy complains about what he has not done.	3. He feels taken for granted and unloved because she doesn't appreciate what he does.
4. She corrects his behavior and tells him what to do, as if he were a child.	4. He feels unloved because he does not feel admired.
5. She expresses her upset feelings indirectly with rhethorical questions like "How could you do that?"	5. He feels unloved because he feels she has taken away her approval of him. He no longer feels like the good guy.
6. When he makes decisions or takes initiatives she corrects or criticizes him.	6. He feels unloved because she does not encourage him to do things on his own.
Mistakes men make	Why she doesn't feel loved
1. He doesn't listen, gets easily distracted, doesn't ask interested or concerned questions.	1. She feels unloved because he is not attentive or showing that he cares.
2. He takes her feelings literally and corrects her. He thinks she is asking for solutions so he gives advice.	2. She feels unloved because he doesn't understand her.
3. He listens but then gets angry and blame her for upsetting him or for bringing him down.	3. She feels unloved because he doesn't respect her feelings.
4. He minimizess the importance of her feelings and needs. He makes children or work more important.	4. She feels unloved because he is not devoted to her and doesn't honor her as special.
5. When she is upset, he explains why he is right and why she should not be upset.	5. She feels unloved because he doesn't validate her feelings but instead makes her feel wrong and unsupported.
6. After listening he says nothing or just walks away.	6. She feels insecure because she doesn't get the reassurance she needs.

Quotes from Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus:

1. When she is feeling good she is capable of seeig and responding to the good things in her life. But when she is crashing, her loving vision becomes cloudy, and she reacts more to what is missing in her life.

2. It puts too much pressure on a man to make him the only source of love and support.

3. By supporting her need to be heard, she could support his need to be free.

4. When her wave crashes again, similar issues will arise. Whatever remains to be healed or resolved from her past inevitably will come up.

5. When a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer.

I have just registered for next year school semester. Looking forward to meeting school friends again. Miss their corny jokes.

Anyway, if I told my mum the school fees raise 200bucks more because of GST, i think she might say "Wah lao eh!! 20 dolllars nevermind, but 200 dollars!! Lucky not 2000 ar." LOL.

I got back "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" from kevin. If you see some relationship nick on my msn, I'd abstract them from the book. Simply because I know not alot is really wise enough to know the difference between men and women. And one sentence could really aid a bad relationship. I know love is reading that too =). I gave her that book for her last birthday. If anyone wants it, you can borrow from me or the library. Believe me, it really helps.

Thought of the day: A child's phase is the most important phase in life.

What a kid think may imprint onto his mind forever, unless someone attempt to change his way of thinking. His way of growing up affects his future. Parenting could be very difficult.

I know my brother and I grew up quite spoilt. At this age, we still do not know how to take care of ourselves. Not saying my mum is really a bad mother, but she never teach us everything we ought to learn in life. The reason we turned out well now goes to the surroundings affecting us, and that we learn well. There's still abit of "let mummy do things for us" kinda thinking. Haha. Although we have been hardworking when we adapt to circumstances. My father's motto - "You have to work to get the things you want." No, I didnt really follow that motto. =| My brother does. Hes gotten 'A's and he is rewarded significantly. He gain alot of knowledge through lots of community works and friends. I am satisfy with what I have, so I dont really need to work for it. Haha. Yes, I am simple and "nice".

End of thought.


Excitement only begin when we are able to go overseas.

PIG la! What Live Earth crap when they are constantly making pollution everywhere? Noise pollution especially. Its okay for some neighbourhood sounds around here 'cause I know its near to the road and market. But the deafening construction noise!!? Its getting louder and louder every single day. Especially annoying for a patient like me. What if someone has a throbbing headache and trying to rest at home uh? And the noise makes it harder to rest in peace. Luckily I didnt have a headache, just stomach discomfort. But at the rate they are going, I might get a headache. ****

What is wrong with the MP here? Singapore is going through changes, yes, but not here! Didnt he care about the peace and environment around here? I am so trying to minimize the noise but shutting myself in the room, with the doors tightly shut. I think a few more days, and I am going to be sick. Now i am listening to music with earpiece stuck in my ear. I heard some blasting music from some other block. That person must be also trying to cover the construction noise. What man. I think i hear them everyday ever since 2 years ago. The neverending construction is getting on my nerve. Why is the residents not complaining to the town council as well? Haiz. It is starting again. Oh gosh, help?!

Starting off with my "fragile" stomach. I regretted not taking any medicine yesterday morning before going out. The day became a very painful day for me. I hardly eat, except for the bread and cold milk I had in the morning. I took 'bit lunch at kevin's house. And then his mum make me a 3-in-1 coffee. I didnt know my stomach cannot take anymore things until that night. I didnt attempt to drink the coffee. My lunch was around 2plus, so after that I went to sleep, hoping I would feel better after a nap. At 6 I woke up, drank my warmed coffee, and prepared to go out.

Met kevin's friends at PS, going for dinner. I had a very bloated stomach, after drinking the coffee. I didnt eat any dinner at fish N Co. at Parkmall. Shared some food with clara and kev. Still didnt manage to finish it. I walked with a little hunch back, trying my best to walk as properly as possible. Took some photos and then we walked to orchard party world. Sang from 10-2am. Had quite a fun time with them. After that, dear and me shared a cab with Luke. We were heading to kev's house while Luke stay around ECP. Yeap, i stayed over.

Taken "bao chi yuan" before sleeping. I was still feeling quesy at midnight so I asked for some panadols. Yea and those pills worked. Should have taken that earlier. -.- Well, ate brunch before clementi. Just came home not long ago after dear went to buy a new frame for his specs. I am still having a bit of "feng" in my stomach, but guess I would be able to take some dinner later. Well. yeah, thats basically all about this weekend.

Aw. Just saw betty's old template and remind me of our poly times. All the sweet gatherings just float back to my mind. I will, I promise, to organise another gathering! And after the guys ORD, we shall go overseas together!

Aw, be waiting. =D

I met kw and joanne yesterday at cityhall. At last! I can finally get out of the house and return in 1 piece.

Love and jj didnt able to join us. We walked to suntec first and browsed for things abit before going for dinner. Ate at subway, and slacked there. Continue shopping and finally went home around 9plus. That stupid bus 502 just refused to come. I waited for the last bus, which is 10pm, then it came.


It is raining, miraculously. The weather is so on and off nowadays, its pissing off everyone, including me.

Bye.

Heal the world, make it a better place. For you and for me and the entire human race.

Crisis Solutions

Go people! Start now! I am not kidding! Save the earth!!

I simply got no more things to write. Im out of ideas and thoughts.

To my dear friends and cousins whos viewing this: I am well now, and hope more gathering will be coming up soon! How I wish I can go on a tour with you guys. =)
Go overseas! KTV, eat, hangout! Wherever and whenever.

To my beloved: I am waiting. Where art thou, my love?




Talking to a plain wall.

Making no sense.

Kissing goodbye. Muacks.

I was surfing on http://omg.yahoo.com and I saw all the celebs photos. I came across the daddys and their kids, then I was like, "OMG! They are so cute." And "OMG! Jude Law has a baby! =X"

Well, heres the cute photos that I saved.


Ben Affleck with daughter Violet at Country Mart in Brentwood April 5, 2007 X17online.com EXCLUSIVE


Cutest baby in town already a star! Ben Affleck and Jennifer garner take baby Violet to the studio nov 8, 2006 X17agency exclusive


Jude Law returns to London after filming in the USA to spend time with his kids. Jude picked up the children from nursery and school with ex-wife Sadie Frost who tried to hide from waiting photographers.


Jude Law plays with son Rudy at a park in Malibu april 29, 2006
X17agency EXCLUSIVE


David Beckham and his sons in Madrid.


Tobey Maguire carrying baby Ruby going to a party at Courteney Cox June 17, 2007 X17online EXCLUSIVE AlphaX/X17online.com


Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes join Victoria Beckham and her sons Cruz, Romeo and Brooklyn to watch Real Madrid's Spanish First Division soccer victory over Real Mallorca at the Santiago Bernabeu stadium in Madrid.

And last but not least, my fav couple of the century!!


Tom Cruise takes his girls Katie and Suri out for a night on the town.


Suri is dressed in an Irish Tartan Dress celebrating St. Patrick's Day.


Tom, Katie, and Suri look so happy together.


Tom and Katie are quite the doting parents.

Why they are my favourite couple? Cos they are hot, and so is the baby. And bcos I watched Oprah about Tom Cruise wanting to propose to Katie Holmes. =D

I suddenly feel useless and tired. I am who I am, but I hate who I am. After 20 years of struggling, I am still overestimating myself. I am satisfy but not overally happy. Crappy down mood comes again. Wonder if its the weather. Urgh. I feel my life is somewhat still and increasingly painful.

Is it time to grow?

Oh great. Just when I thought my body aches was getting better. My headache came and join the fun. Oh woo, and then my appetite worsen. I didnt eat in the morning until 2 pm when my mother bought food home yesterday. I still didnt eat cos my stomach somehow refused any food whichs coming in. I went to rest until 3 plus when dear called me. I was thinking whether to go for the NDP preview not. I guess I was feeling better so I agreed to go. Took a cab down with my parents. Then the jam begun. We had to alight from Millenia Walk and walked a long stretch of path to reach esplanade. And then dada dada dada. I dont even wish to mention anything about it.

Finally sat down under the scorching sun. Enjoyed the parade and the performance. Excellent performances by the armed forces. Not sure if they were trying to show off, but it was well done. Haha. Were trying to wait for the fireworks at the end. And people started leaving. I was like, Huh?, but the fireworks haven even start?! It was when I realised there was no fireworks at all. The commentor announced the end of the parade.

We went back to suntec convention centre, waiting to take bus 502 when my bro called. He wanting to meet us for supper. so dear went home while we waited for him at Food Republic. After eating Hokkien mee, we took 502 home.


Today, I just create a new blog skin. I dont know if anyone would want it. I will give a preview.



Went to sheng siong supermarket with my parents and bro opposite my house. Then came back and rest until dinner time. Took a cab to IMM for dinner. Had penne with turkey ham and cheese at Secret Receipe. Gw had fish and chips while my parents had a lamb stew each. Walked around Best Denki, Challenger and Sony for a while before going home. Next week could be getting a Wii! Need to check out the price and the modified version first of cos. Well, till then.

Dont know what is happening to me lately. Even if I wake up at 10plus am, I can be lethargic for the whole day. Maybe I didnt rest my eyes, while playing game all day long. Haha.

Well, its just gaming and gaming everyday. I still dont find my life wasted. Somehow I think, studying is when you get the slackest days of your life. After schooling, all you must do is to work and work and without rest and fun, excluding weekends. Because weekends are so short, you cant get enough of the fun, and the weekdays come again.

Arent I bored staying at home everyday? Well, at least I can do the things I like, without anyone disturbing.

Weekdays, I play my game. Weekends, I go out with dear dear. =D How slacker can I get? LOL.

Before something happen to my foot, I go swimming sometimes, with someone of cos. And now, I just hoping to keep on keeping fit for the rest of my holidays. Swimming could be reduced already. Although it seems ridiculous, but my mum suspect that twisting my leg has got to do with swimming. In Redang, I tripped and sprained while boarding the boat after snokling. Often, a few days after vigorous swimming, I sprain my ankle. Haha. I wouldnt believe it how ever my mum says it. But now I do. Urgh. Then again, how could I give up my favourite and only sport? Which is why I swear to reduce swimming, although not totally giving it up.



Okay. Shall blog about today.

Dear booked out early today, while I was still snoring away. -.- But he got to book in early on sunday morning. =(

We went to watch Transformers at marina square, our usual hangout. I was dead tired (I automatically wake up at 9am these days) and was falling asleep when the show started. However, the show was so intense and hilarious that I was perked up for the whole movie. Was able to shop around finding bags though. Shared ice cream(Fruit Frenzy) at natural new zealands in suntec basement. After that, I was back to my slouchy self. We walked around carrefour before we went to eat at pizzahut. I had crayfish pasta while dear had some chic chicken pasta. I wasnt that hungry so only managed to get half my pasta eaten. Yeah, I was dying, and so we went home after dinner.

Tmr would be going to the NDP preview with my parents and dear. My brother would be doing security so he cant join us at all.

Got to go now. Bye.

I am so sorry girls. My mum forbids me to go, cos my leg haven fully recover yet. Hmm.

Your Passion is Purple!

You've got a ton of passion, but you don't always wear it on your sleeve. If something truly excites you, you let your inner intensity shine through. But otherwise, your passion tends to morph into energy ... which you never lack. You're a balanced woman, knowing when to turn on the fire in your heart.

What Type of Passionate Woman Are You?

Your True Sign Is Cancer

Cozy Moody Romantic Traditional Ultra-Sensitive Unable to Let Go The Most Loving Ever Intuitive and Imaginative

What Sign Woman Are You, Really?

You Are 64% Real

You know who you are, and you're pretty darn comfortable with yourself. Like everyone, you struggle with the parts of yourself that aren't so great... But you're good at accepting who you are and not dwelling on your faults. As a result, you're confident, optimistic, and very real.

How Real Are You?

You Are Medium Maintenance

You aren't as hard to deal with as some girls But you aren't the most laid back chick either You're easy to deal with 90% of the time, but watch out for that 10%! If the guy you are with has good intentions, then calm down a little But if he's really screwing up, don't waste your breath - move on :-)

Are You A High Maintenance Woman?

You Can Hang With the Guys and the Girls

You've struck a good balance between girlie and laid back. You can keep it casual but when you dress up, you are as girly as the next girl.

How Feminine Are You?

You Are An Independent Girlfriend!

Whoa, Ms. Independent! Your guy digs your modern style... But he's sometimes left to wonder if you really like him. Keep that unique spirit, but show him your love a bit more often. No worries - you're light years away from smothering him!

What Kind of Girlfriend Are You?

You are a Great Girlfriend

When it comes to your guy, you're very thoughtful But you also haven't stopped thinking of yourself You're the perfect blend of independent and caring You're a total catch - make sure your guy knows it too!

Are You a Good Girlfriend?

Your Love Is Represented By a Pink Rose

You see love as something that should be light, fun, and whimsical. People fall in love with you easily. And you tend to fall out of love easily! You express your love through attention and shared experiences. You love people more than they realize.

What Rose Represents Your Love?

Your Love Style is Eros

For you, love is all about the passion! And chances are, you're currently in love. You have a strong physical response to love... And you are great at committing (As long as the person makes your toes curl!)

What's Your Love Style?

i am darned bored, of the fact that my ankle is still recuperating and I am, of cos, stuck at home, with nowhere to go.

Fortunately, dear came. But then again, hes using my bros com to play game. -.- and so, yes, i dislike Dota and Company of Heros.

I played abit of 9dragons on my laptop for a while, while hes still playing COH.

I mean, whos the patient here, me or him?

On the worse side, I recently heared or rather saw a bad news. Its so bad that it sets my mind wondering, is relationship ever reliable and predictable?

I used to think, with faith comes persistence. And what? Persistence is not the key anymore? then what seperate two people apart despite being together quite long?

Hmm..

Hm. Brood about bad things that happened or that keep happening. Ironically, I am still able to handle all these unwanted problems. Wonder if I'm optimistic or I'm plain naive that cant be bothered about the people or things that is revolving around me. I show the same facade to society, and hope they would give me what I want. Things doesnt always appear as it seems, though. We live lifes differently, but we are not concious that we are different. Sometimes it worsen the relationship between us and the society; sometimes it frustrates ourselves because we dont accept what is going on. We struggle to keep with the pace of the changing world. Yet we subconciously warn ourselves of the cons. And why must we abide to rules? Cant things ever go our way? I dont know that I ever written this before; but I cant deduce what is right and what is wrong anymore. This is how people want to live their lives. We cant interfere but we cannot ignore the fact that they mess with ours too.

As old saying goes, life is complicated. Live everyday to its maximum. Do not regret. There wont be a next one.

This line is cliche. Everyone knows how to say it. Do people ever live lives to the max? Well, some really do. They involve themselves in a matter of own interest, or of the public goods. Some dont regret their lives 'cause they are satisfy with theirs. What is yours cant be mine. What is mine cant be yours. Individuals strive to achieve their own goals, collectivists comply to the society. Its the way how we see it not what we see it.

Why do office politics happen? Others who are not in the know, may think those are just arrogant, think-they-know-all, 'bit indifferent. For all you may know, these pathetic fools are just trying to gain some recognition, live their own lives, struggling to live, compete for self-egoism, etc. etc..

Why would I not want to face the "real" world? 'Cause I know there would be masks everywhere you go. Constant change is true. Even the heart and mind turn itself, sometimes unknowingly. Who would ever need a "fengshui" master? He might not even know the truth.


Blubbers. Whenever I type this long, I might be bored or I just feel like typing. Possibly I think non-stop too. About stupid stuffs. I wallow about every small things. There was even once I thought about helping the UN. Saving the third world countries is their motto. I shivered when I thought in depth about death. How would a person's life end? The whole conciousness would go where? Fear about death is normally what you cannot do the things you want to do. Besides, you would never know what might happen. By the way, what does it mean to be "in other people's shoes"? Can we replace their minds and know what they are thinking about? If ever one day, you wake up to find yourself in the body and mind of someone else, what would you do? Grins.

Gosh! I found this on the website that betty recommended. Really amazing! If only we are in the future right now.. I can totally visualise the world of new technology with this device screen.

Watch to get a grip of what im talking about.

Aack! Was really planning to go for weiseng's bday already, then I hurt my ankle yesterday. I practically wailed out loud. Not because of the party, but of the fact that I twisted my leg again.

Sigh.

My mum brought me to the chinese doc just now. Anyway, my sprain wasnt that bad. At least I can walk. =X

And aw, I would really love to go swimming with jo and love if it wasnt for this.

Crap.

Hmm. *Been playing Granado Espada and 9Dragons.*

Okay, so on the previous entry I blogged about going to the supermarket. For a purpose, of course.

Yesterday, I cooked spaghetti and campbell soup for dear and me. Quite nice and filling, I must say. *Abit proud* Fine. So this dish is a simple one. Shall try something else next time.

After lunch, Kevin played Company of Heros while I slept. *PIG*

He left around 4.30pm to go to scout around the marina square for NDP purpose.

Bro and mum came back and we decided to order pizza for dinner. The pizzas wasnt the best.

Anyway, guowei booked in again at 7.30. I went to meet dear at JP around 8.30pm to watch Fantastic Four. Took a bus home around 11pm. It wasnt too late and so kev is able to catch the train home.

Entry on yesterday's event:

The weather was okay yesterday, which i "prayed" hard for. I realised the best time to go for a dip in the pool is in the morning. It started to get abit "moody" in the evening. Haha.

Anyway, the morning I went swimming with love, her sis and joanne at the SP guild. The sun wasnt that hot and it doesnt feel like raining. We swam for 1 hour plus before we enjoyed ourselves in the jacuzzi, the steaming room and the sauna. Bathed and left the guild around 2pm. Hailed a cab to clementi to eat lunch. Betty "tabao" and rushed off to work. We waited for her sis's bf to come before me and joanne went to the supermarket to shop. Then went home.

Love is going Bangkok and Kaiwen just came back from China. Joanne is leaving for Genting Highlands in another 3 days. Sob. I wish I have places to go during these holidays. I guess I could also leave for Genting in December too, if i can. My mum and aunts are going, hmph, without me again. -.- Yw, Xx, we "pon" school and go okay? LOL. Oh, and I got a gut feeling they are going taiwan to attend the wedding too. Not sure about my aunts, but my mum is following if grandma's going. September, just when my school just start. Hmph!

Woo! Yesterday went to attend kaifeng and daphne's wedding!

I reached their condo at around 9 am in the morning to witness the tea ceremony. I missed the part where the groom came to fetch the bride! Darn. I was waiting to watch that part of how they played him LOL. The whole morning process was screened at the wedding dinner later in the evening. The groom and his "brothers" were made to eat chillies! Haha. Hmm. Then something about a poem reading too. They re-enacted the scene at the dinner. Lol.

After the tea ceremony, I sat in the family car to head to the church. The church wedding lasted 1 hour, i think. I nearly break into tears when i saw uncle walking down the aisle with his daughter.

Then, we had lunch buffet at the reception area. Friends and relatives just gathered. How warming!

Went back to their house around 2pm. Slept until 5 and went to bath and prepared for the dinner. I was surprised that I was able to make-up in such a hurry. That's my fastest putting-on makeup ever. LOL.

Anyway, when we arrived at Sheraton hotel, we went up to the couple's room. Watched abit of charlie's angels there, and went down to prepare for the reception.

I was getting abit flustered when people just came up to the reception asking for table numbers. Haha. Well, did well with the help of their cousin. Hee.

They started the dinner around 8pm. It was delicious. I was seated at the VIP seat so dinner was served seperately on the plate. As usual, the slides of how kaifeng and daphne knew each other and the wedding album was put up too. The funny thing was the re-enacting scene. Kaifeng did it twice, but on the second time, he was reading with Shakespears's feeling(thou and thee). LOL.

They sent me home around 11pm =D.


Here are the pictures I have taken with my hp.

The 1st two photos are what i wore to the tea ceremony and the church.

The holidays are here and my 3-months shall be all about slacking.

Did nothing lately, 'cept to watch some korean drama.

Did not go swimming on monday and tuesday, hence can only do some running on my thread mill.

My legs are breaking from all those running, but i feel satisfy enough. =)


today was supposed go swimming with joanne, betty and her frens. Joanne didnt want to go so i didnt too. Cos i'd feel wierd alone. Haha. In the end, i went swimming with my brother at jurong sport complex. i felt so accomplished for swimming 1km today. After that, we went to JP to eat and then went to watch Ocean 13.

Feel so tired out now. Haven bath yet. Haha.

Well, till then.

kw's bday photos

oops! wrong eye to cam view!


how come i keep getting it wrong?!


group photo. well, i still look sideways.


the 4 gurls!


the bouquet of flower and us..

Yup I went queensway yday. Dear shopped and turned into a "auntie" who need to shop for clothes. Haha. After loads of fitting, he finally got himself a white shirt(to go with his blazer) and a pair of adidas white shoe for the occasion. And I bought my swimsuit. Happy!

At around 5 plus, We took bus 198 home.

Ate dinner that my mum cooked and watched naruto. Soon he went home.

Joanne and I are so planning to go swimming today, then comes the bloody weather! Its cloudy now, but its a passing rain today. Guess we would be able to swim later in the afternoon.

Crap its raining now.

Sat - come swimming at dear's house. Ate lunch with gw before going out.

Swam for 2 hours and then came back to bath, eat and then nap.

I woke up just in time to go to kaiwen's bday chalet.

Took bus 13 to east coast and walked all the way in. Did not eat much cos of the food I had before nap time. The birthday girl had quite a fun time celebrating her birthday. Her relatives are so "on" people. Haha. Finally left 2 hours later. Were actually wanting to take a bus to Kevin's but then again the bus is so long, we had to take a cab back his place. Stayed over for the night.

Well, I am still here waiting to go out later. Haha. We are going queensway. Meanwhile, i'm watching starwars with him. No idea what the show is about. I only watched the Phantom Menace and I begun from the middle part. Totally clueless about the whole series of Starwars.

LOL

Met yw at lakeside station yday noon to go to suntec.

Was planning to go with my parents but they said they might not go anymore so we just went alone.

Went to have lunch in asian kitchen at the citylink. Quite a nice meal, I must say. 3 red bean milk teas, 1 fried rice, 1 "zha jiang mian" and 6 pcs of "xiao long bao". Wah, just thinking of that "zha jiang mian" alone makes me salivate. Not to mention its soup and the delicious fried rice too. The "bao" should be nice as well but I didn't eat that.

So we just sit there for an hour before we go to suntec convention hall.

Gw bought his Ipod at the Apple fair, finally.

Squeeze all the way up to the bookfair, but seeing that it was nothing, we hurried to the IT fair.

I was still trying to get my Sony M2 memory card, so we just make it straight for that section along with the crowds. I asked for the card and guess what? Its bloody sell out!

Had nothing more to look at, and refusing to stay in with the crowds, we headed to the exit immediately.

Okay, so we had our lunch and just wanted some icecream to satisfy ourselves as desserts so we went down the basement, in search for a place to slack. And yes, we found seats right beside the natural australia icecream cart. The flavours were fantastic. I had rum n rasins, choco ecstasy and fruits of the forest(yoghurt). They nearly had the same but yw had berry instead of choco ecstasy, and gw had some flavour which i cant rmb, instead of the yoghurt flavour icecream.

Slacked there for another 1 hour or so before going to JE to sing at the KBOX.

The deal is from 7pm to closing time. Hence we went to buy lots and lots of tidbits before we went in.

The whole room was freezing even we ever started to sing. Huh, our solution? The 3 of us jumped like nobody's business while singing the "HI" songs. Then we slowly sang other songs. But it was still as cold. We get ourselves to sing until throats are sored until 1am, and then finally break out of that blizzard.

Drew some money and took a cab home, at last. Went straight to bed after the everlasting shouting and the struggling ability to withstand the "ice block room".

Yes! I'm putting everything to the "past" and stop thinking about those bloody exams!

Today's last paper and I am finally set free!!!

Early at noon, dear booked out and bought me lunch so i could eat and then go for exam in the afternoon.

I met him again after exam at bugis. Had 'ou jian' and 'cha kuay tiao' for dinner. And then, woo, shopping spree! well, not really. Cos I bought things that I had in mind. However there is still one thing I failed to get - swimsuit. The only one thing left in my mind to get, and I am not able to get it!! I finally got my white dress from Fashion Lab for kev's sis's wedding dinner next week! And its at a discounted price of 20%(U.P. $69) at 55 bucks! Hehe. Walked to bugis street trying to find a nice piece of good looking t-shirt for him. In the end, its just a wasted journey.

Headed home after that. Shall either try to swim tmr or exercise on my thread mill. Fatty me.

Whatever it is, happy is me! Me is happy!

Dear's mum invited me to the wedding buffet held in the condo's function room today.

I waited for dear to bath first before going down to the function room to eat.

We ate and talked with his aunt(actually I'm a onlooker).

After eating, we went upstair to decide Kevin's wedding dinner clothes.
The relatives then were ready to go to Daphne's new house. The cars were not enough for all of us, so me, dear, his sis, and her fiance took a cab there.

Their house is well-decorated, with the spot-lights and all. The dining room consist of a build-in bench and a table(assuming bcos the table is not bought yet). Yes the lights were awesome! I love them!

Kevin and I went to take a bus, after visiting his sis's house, to marina square, bcos he still haven get the rest of his clothes yet.

Rest for a while bcos of my tight-fitted shoes, and with my long toe-nails nearly protruding the shoes.

Finally, stopped in Giordano to look at the men's blazer and pant.

He bought those 2 items.

My shoes were killing me. We went in straight to Macdonalds to take a rest. Anyway, bought a cheese cake, a vanilla and a double chocolate blend at McCafe. While eating, we started solving the Soduku puzzle(I brought the book for fun).

Went straight home after that to eat dinner. Crab is the main course! I love crabs!

That's how well-spent my day has been. Stopped the guilt for not studying at home after lunch buffet. Haha.

Ooh. My brother's passing out parade today.

My mum and I went to watch and left home around 7.30am.

Waited under the faulty weather (glaring sun at first, then seem abit dready later on) for 1 hour plus until it started.

LOL. The soothing music was totally irrelevant to the event. It was like in a wedding, before the dinner begins.

Then came the exaggerating music when the parade started. *Soundtracks of Star wars, MI, Pirates. Lastly, some china song came out of nowhere.*

Below is the video i have taken in the morning of the parade.


After parade, we went to eat with another parents, whom gw so happen to know their son too.

Mother and I walked around, while waiting for gw, because its family day event after the parade. My mum went to take the tank. Gw found me and we waited for our mum to come back before exploring somemore. There wasnt much activities so we went to watch happy feet/flushed away in the theatre room until when its time to leave the camp.


They went home while I went to meet dear at marina square.

Ate lunch at mac and went to watch pirates - quite a must-watch show.

Dinner was at Han's.

Was planning to shop for clothes today. But none seems suitable enough.

In the end, dear did manage to get a 4-man and a 6-man tents. I bought a goggle for myself.

Return home by bus 502.

Next time should get a swimsuit. Haha.

LOL

My psychology do emphasize on gender differences.

Verbal communication -

WOMEN
- Prefer conversation for rapport building
- Want empathy, not solutions
- Are more likely to compliment
- Emphasize politeness
- More conciliatory

MEN
- Talk as a means to preserve independence and status by displaying knowledge and skill
- Work out problems on an individual basis
- Are more directive in conversation
- Are more intimidating
- Call attention to their accomplishments
- Tend to dominate discussions during meetings


Non Verbal communication -

- Men touch women more than women touch men
- Men are more likely to relate touch to sex than women



The non-verbal ones are so funny that we laugh during class when the lecturer taught us this.

Okok. Just want to show you guys this. HAHA.

Back to books. =P

I woke up, only to find myself uncomfortable.

Had some headache and stomach discomfort. So ate some panadol and "bao zi yuan" to kill the discomfort. The headache was gone, thank god. However, the stomach bloating continue and i kept burping.

Then, diarrhoea. -.-

After 3 more in the evening, my mum forced me to go to the clinic.

Funny thing is, I feel better when i came back.

Did not even take any medicine yet.

Okay, abit of the feeling come back again. AHH!

Complained to dear just now. Sob. Chat for a while before he goes sleep on his "comfy" bed.

I think I feel okay already. In any case, bye for now.

i cant believe that i actually slept for 3 hours + for nap time!


My plan to study 2 sections of the study guide din work out.

After lunch, i fell aslp on my couch, and woke up at 4plus, much to my dismay.

A day is wasted.


I can no longer study tonight. My mind is somewhere else.

Dear came for dinner and just went back to camp. Slowly adapting to his inconsistency to participate in my life, as i am in his.


I guess I am on a holiday mood with everyone else who had their last paper yday. This deems my foiled concentration on my books.

Tmr my battle should begin!

nothing to post actually.

am sitting down here, trying to "slack", while waiting for lunch time.

Then after lunch, I can start studying for my psycho exam.

for the past few days, i ve been thinking of all sort of possibilities to spend my holidays.

1stly, swimming.

2ndly, watch some new korean drama show that my mum brought home.


whatever it is, i am so keen on singing, swimming and shopping.

3 Ss.


I want to get a job. but its just the idea of working, everyday just doing nothing, makes me give up that idea. I know temp jobs are like that. They cant teach u anything, which is why i cant stand this kind of life, idling in a company. Those jobs that require activities(im sure i wont get those) are out. I hate the idea of serving ppl. Its not the ppl, its me. I know im slow and clumsy in doing things. In any case, just forget it.


Just hope that my IBM can pass. Its the only paper that i am scared of failing.
man.


Looking forward to this weekend with dear. Finally can get to go out. I release myself out for a day. HAHA. We are going to shop for the wedding dinner clothes(not ours -.-).

Lunch Time! Go Go Go!

For 30 years, my mum didn't do any exercise nor any facial. That week b4 she went to the china trip, she signed up for yoga and 5 sessions of facial treatment. And those, of cos, has eaten away 2 months of her salary, though i must agree that my mum is rich(cos she saves since young). And then 1 week during their jiang nan trip, my parents splurged like money is nothing to them. HAHA.

Then again, her facial and yoga sessions helped. She slimmed down quite abit. Her face looks better, with all that "fats" and her ugly spots gone. She taught me a few yoga steps too. Like I blogged previously, ive got'n fatter. So those yoga steps that ive learnt from her should help. haha. For my flexibility as well. My mum says that im quite rigid for someone my age. Her instructor used that same line on her too(without the age part). Well, in any case, with yoga and swimming(after exams), i hope to gain back abit of my shape or to get some toning.

Time to get back to my books. See ya.

My horoscope says this:

It's a great night to host or attend a party together. If there's nothing on your social calendar, see if you can make something happen spontaneously -- you never know who's up for fun!


right....

Like I have any social life right now. Or rather any life. My 1 month is all about mugging and mugging. My brain's holding in huge amount of information, at the same time preventing them from dropping as new ones go in(temporary storage of mine). God knows whether I will do well in my IBM. It's the only subject that I flunked during mock exam. Furthermore, the likelihood of me doing a well-written essay is zero. Why? The answers they asked for are complicated. They need links from chapters. Blistering Bonkers. Shacks and Hussles. Polistic Lockhard. Fools and Bamberina. (They just pop in my mind.)Haha. Puralistic concepts of environment. Gasp! No IBM now.

Aacks! If I were to stop and look through my IBM again, I would go nuts.

2 more papers to go.

Yet looking forward to holidays.

No exams. No books. No stress. Only fun, joy and lots of love.

I was planning to stick my butt to the chair until midnight studying. It seems that i lost every ounce of concentration. Only 2 chapters in the notes that I have covered. Not even half yet. And only 2 days left before my D-Day. I would really love to read my notes until half the night gone. Somehow, my eyes refused to stay open to stare at the notes.

I shut my eyes for 15-20 minutes just now. It didn't work. I am still as tired.

So I daydreamed about what dazzling gown I would get for a wedding dinner. And how I would set my hair to be. What eyeshadow would I use? It never occurred to me, momentarily, that I would look twice as pretty during my own wedding. I would not astound, but make the "audience" think they were in a fairyland.

I woke up from my dream eventually, to eat.

For every half to an hour, I switched off, trying to do other things, eg. washing face, drinking coffee, brushing teeth, watching drama with my mum, etc. The interval between only makes my mind wander around even more.

I would try and stop, if I weren't so involved in typing.

I apologised for the long entry. But somehow, my brain is twirling like a cog in a clock. I would stop I promise.

I got my wishlist updated. And if you have realised, I have gotten my longed-for handphone. Now. It's time for another item to be struck off. All! MUAHAHA. Oh, I have forgotten to add in, an evening gown.

Time for another isomnia session. Au revoir!

finally, 3 pps down already..

im quite happy with myself for doing quite alright with those 3 pps..

but there isnt the qn in section C in sociology that it supposed to come out. in the end we did qn that we dun even noe the chapters. and its 25 marks for that section u noe! i was so confident for that qn lo and in the end, it din come out... -.-

heard that the examiners are quite aplogetic for the qn that they din post. what crap! u gimme my 25 marks then i forgive u lar!!

just came back from programming exam. dunno if my section A ans was correct not... but i was really good in answering the section B. although i dunno if those need to be linked to section A not.. hope not =X

2 pps left.. ji dan.. ppl only got ibm left and i got ibm and psychology.. -.- 30th may! haiz.. so far.. yet so good.. cos i haven start revising.. haha..

btw.. had lunch with the guys at BK today after morning pp.. wah bth them.. they r the best lamers i ve seen yet so far!

came back ard 1.. so reached at 2pm..

going to slp liao.. tmr then study.. urgh~!

i am so bored..

theres so many things i wanna do.. that i so want end of may to come quicker.

i want to buy a 2gb microsd card.
i want to swim.
i want to buy an evening gown.
i want to do a mastercard debit.
i want to sing.
i want to play pool.
i want to go chalet.
i want to watch dramas.
i want to do facial.
i want to do some yoga/pilates.
i want to go shopping.
i want to get an interesting temp job.

thats all for now.

side note: my bro got into NUS law sch. he felt exhilarated. i feel happy for him too. =)

sweat.. gotten fat..

even my brother say so..

next determination after exam: swimming every 3 days..

love i am ready le.. haha..

but first i need to go buy a swimsuit and a google..

so going to make this my next resolution..

i cannot dun keep doing exercise.. i would die of fatness at home..

how i wish exam is over.. sianss...

i finally got my k800i on mon night! it was on a promotional price at 238bucks.. so i bought it without another thought.. anyway, finally got what i wanted le.. LOL

anyone heard of IMVU? its a 3D messenger service.. allows u to play ppl one.. LOL.. anyway, its at http://www.imvu.com. if anyone install it, be sure to add me: meltinChoco

tmr is start of exam.. taking stats first thing in the morning..
*hope exam qn not too difficult*

im waiting for june now.. haha.. meanwhile *poof!*

-updatess-

fri : i was at home studying stats n socie for the whole week.. i studied stats until evening n then went to meet dear after his camp.. we went back to his place to put down things.. i waited while he bathed.. then we went to TM to eat at ajisen.. were planning to catch spiderman 3.. but when we reached there, we saw the slots were in red 'cept for 12am show.. so then we went to eat..

after eating, went to costa sand resort.. kev's frens were already there, waiting for us to go eat.. anyway, watched them play ps2 for awhile b4 we make a beeline to mac.. watched them eat and slacked there.. michael make a super funny joke that lasted for our entire chalet days.. LOL

went back to bath.. and then watched them play citadel, a board game that kev brought.. then was mahjong time! hee.. few of us playing while few of them playing ps2.. the first "trial" was to help one of kev's fren, terence, to get to know how to play mahjong.. then after the trial, kevin changed places with me.. this time, they played with money.. i watched them played abit while watching tv too.. headed upstairs to sleep cos bth liao.. clara slept next to me.. the whole night we were unable to sleep well.. cos of the aircon blowing directly at us.. and the sound of the guys playing..


sat: woke up around 8 when terence came in.. some of them were sleeping downstairs.. went down to brush teeth lo.. i dun rmb whether we played any mahjong not.. but i dun think so.. went to eat mac for breakfast.. well, came back ard early noon i think.. started a new session of mahjong.. this time with money and im the one playing.. fortunately i din lose any money.. haha.. well i din win as well.. hmm.. they wanted to play soccer so went out with kev n friends to the beach.. clara played with them while kev and i watched them..

3 of his frens joined us.. and so he went to play with them as well.. finally get to see dear play soccer le =D.. 2 of his frens went back chalet cos one was sick, the other was tired.. i just watched.. we went back to the chalet ard 3pm.. hmm.. after that ar.. michael brought SHE concert dvd to watch.. so we watched it lo.. then went out to watch them set up the charcoal for the bbq.. they were making the charcoal to work for 1 hr plus i think -.-'' anyway, the bbq man came and we started bbqing.. ate and ate.. ppl started to come.. was actually ard 8 ppl then more ppl came..

it was near the end of our staying time.. last bit was the game, zhong ji mi ma.. however, the loser would ve to act out whatever is written down.. it was fun watching (cos i din play).. went to change and then waited for the farewell speech.. =) oh btw, the purpose of this chalet was to give a farewell chalet to luke who is going overseas to study.. i knew them as well so i went lo.. anyway, went home after that..


sun (today): finally went to watch spiderman 3 with dear at marina.. we went to scout for some jacket for his sis's wedding b4 going back his hse..

went back his hse to eat.. and then slacked a while b4 going home while he booked in le..


on a side note: btw, the internal joke i was talking abt was related to the movie.. haha.. and photos would be put up if only one of them would send me the chalet photos.. n dear is receiving so ever-the-slowly.. maybe i should get msn from them then they could pass it to me.. haha..

end of story. =D

ooh i finally received the photos on CS's bday!

enjoy!


da bday cake!


my luv and me! haha




"fan qie!"







nice nice pics.. how i wish i got a cam too.. hmmm...

hmm.. i went to stay at my cousins hse last week..
went out to jp with them to buy things.. got myself a cute pair of golden shoe..


came home on wed afternoon.. washed clothes and went to meet the girls to buy bday prez..
ate dinner and then shopped for 2 hours.. finally finished gifts shopping at around 9pm..
went home after that..


was slacking at home the whole afternoon on thurs..
while waiting to go sch in the evening, my parents came back home!
they really had a handful of bags.. obviously alot of stuffs were for us too.. haha..
anyway, i got a silk blanket, a pearl necklace, a sliver pair of earrings and 2 bags..
my mother bought a lot of makeup products which i am using.. haha..


fri was attending ibm lesson until 5pm..
dear went home ard 9 plus..
bro came home ard 10plus..


sat dear came over after settling stuffs in camp..
we went to chevron ard 6plus..
cs had lots of relatives and friends came.. and apparently the chalet isnt that big enuff for all of us..
so we just stayed out.. yq n von went off ard 7plus..
out of boredom, we went to the arcade..
had enuff fun of playing so went to find the others sitting at the lobby..
kw ran off.. and then jj joined us.. haha..
well, we then celebrated the bday..
went back to the chalet hse and ate something while watching dan n chinsher playing ps2..
finally took bus home ard 10..



sitting at the bus stop...

today i slept until quite late.. so i met dear ard 2plus to watch 200 pound beauty..
went home after that cos both our parents cooked for us..

wedding dinner was good.. only the fact that i ain't full at all..

and worst is, the faces r familiar.. 'cept for the bride and groom.. total stranger to us..

heres the fotos:





well the food arrived at around 8 plus.. *i was famished!*

and then the usual procedures..
slides, food, slides, food, *yum sheng*, take photos..

took uncle's car to n back from dinner..

after dinner.. waved sjun off at pasir ris park.. shes meeting her frens at fisherman's village..

the parents were worried abt her walking in the dark, so gw and her father went down to check on her..

they saw her and were told to come back haha..

then we went all the way back to the west.. *home sweet home*

am at my cousins' hse now.. so unable to transfer photos..

be back home by tmr..

gw booked out on thurs afternoon..

fri went to eat mac with him opp our hse for lunch and then i went for class until 4.30pm..

after that i met my bro at imm to eat dinner..

we ate at coffee club.. wah i can tell u.. the food there is superb! esp the dessert.. i can still feel the lingering taste of the tiramisu icecream cake and the mudpie in my mouth.. haha..

i strongly recommend this place.. esp in imm one..

shopped until we dropped after dinner.. and then took cab home..

tonight's going to the wedding dinner.. cant wait for the food!

going out first.. bb..

ooh im so excited.. ive got 3 wedding dinners to go in half a year's time..

1 is my mum's cousin on 21st apr.. someone i dunno.. my bro n i supposed to rep my parents while they go china..

2 is kev's sis's.. which is on june/july.. =)

3 is qing ling's in sep.. which is near my bday too! hehe..


i haven really got an evening gown.. the only one i had is the one kev's sis gave me on their cousin's wedding.. and it will be wierd if i wear her evening gown to her wedding rite.. lol

so i guess i need to buy another one..

and a tote bag to go with it..

y dun i ve any proper ones for weddings? -.-


i wonder who else is getting married.. it'll be kinda fun.. haha..

*fhump* *thinking of what to wear now on saturday* *fingers tapping on table*


i always like weddings! LOL.. cos of good food.. and ambience.. unless it sucks la..

speaking of food.. dear nv bring me to the food tasting for his sis's one.. -.- cos he says no more seats..

but he says its good.. nvm i believe him.. those who appreciate food is like that de.. everything also gobble down LOL..

i believe i may appreciate gd food more.. cos i live in a family who noes how to cook good food(except me hahahahaha) =X

neighboorhood sound.. is that what they call?

*sound of drilling**car honking* *car alarm spoil* *cat screeching* *dog barking* *kids screaming* *babies crying* *sound of kids playing* *people talking loudly* *gurung guni shouting* sometimes *sparkles cracking* *planes flying over*

they r wierd sounds to me.. cos i nv actually see them and see what happen..
although ive been hearing them for 22 years, i found them seriously irritating lately..

i swear im gonna find a place next time where its so peaceful that i can sleep soundly.. and without too much sun..

my room is facing the sun.. which is always hot n stuffy.. while my parents' room is cool.. -.-

they always complain when they step into my room.. bcos i ve stayed there for a few years now(was my grandma's) i dun really feel it..

now ive noticed.. its really stuffy in there.. especially in the morning when the sun is strong..

and one thing... my block is so near the opposite block.. my room can be seen from the opposite household.. i swear every nite they could see what im doing already.. i am so paranoid that i always close my curtains in the night, leaving a small opening.. -.-

although i like my house.. i dun like the way it is.. especially my room.. darn..

i got a funny feeling today. not bcos im sick.. haha..


u see, theres this thing with girls that we refused to admit.. we r too emotional and we take it out on the guys who got ??? on their heads everytime it happens..

revengeful girls always try to ignore the men when the guys refuse to admit their faults(of anything LOL)..

but when men neglect the women, its often unintentional...


when guys neglect girls, we feel terrible
on the scale of 1-10, i give it a 9 for gals..
and for guys, i give it 0.. (they dunno what they ve done)


when girls ignore guys, they..
feel something, but dismiss it quick.. i give it a scale for guys of 3
and for girls, i give it 8.. (we often feel guilty abt it LOL)


NB: this doesnt apply to those sensitive guys..


and so..

this concludes that girls r more emotional... and unreasonable.. at times... LOL

but it also bring out the insensitivity in men and totally clueless abt what's happening with their girls..


i can do nth abt this.. so this is what i ve pond abt just in the kitchen(i like to stay there after eating and staring into space)
comment this pls? m i correct?

dear booked out on thurs evening..

i met him after my socie revision in sch.. went home first cos my bag heavy and later on need to go meet his family for dinner..

met him at lakeside and took train to outram to take his sis's car to central mall at clark quay..

ate ramen at a jap restaurant there.. the soup very thick very nice.. and the meat very tender as well..

walked abit and waited for his sis to clean her engagement ring at sookee.. then went home le..


fri got ibm revision..

sch canteen din open on good friday.. mega bites is full of ppl.. so kw me n her frens went to bukit timah hawker to eat.. were rushing cos only got 1 hr lunch break..

went to wait for bus near the mac there.. while on the bus, i saw dear n his fren at the busstop! i din see him and he din see me at the busstop.. only after i boarding the bus then he saw me.. kw saw him too..

happened that dear and frens went to np to play soccer.. and then went to ate at mac.. so was waiting to take bus to clementi..

since i still got 2 more hrs to finish class.. i told him to wait for me.. and then we went back his hse..

played some ps2 games and went home le..


yday i met dear and his frens for dinner cos its his fren's 21st bday..

we went to anchor point(opp ikea) and ate at sakuraya..

was planning to buy cake at first.. then clara told me to buy when we eat halfway.. so went to bengawan solo to get a blackforest cake for the 12 ppl..

there were only 3 girls.. me clara and one's of kev's fren's gf.. well we din noe her so we din talk to her at all..

anyway it was quite fun celebrating 21st bday haha..

after dinner.. the bday boy went to sing ktv wit his frens.. the rest also wanna sing.. i having quite abit of a headache so went home with dear.. he dun sing as well.. end up the rest of the gang went to watch movie..

so thats all for weekends.. =)

OMG.. the link below links to flooble horoscope found in betty's blog..

the description in each signs is really sarcastic and unfortunately true..

here --> http://www.flooble.com/fun/horoscope.php

read it and u know that u cant change urself.. LOL.. and there i was, going "how how ar? so zhun man.." -.-

i would be passing my time away idly for the next 2 more years.. yes, to admit, studying is a waste of time.. u dun really apply most of what u studied to ur career.. it just helped to obtain a stable job.. i keep thinking im going to spend 2 more yrs like that.. the only thing is i will be seeing the usual group of frens in sch for the next 2 yrs..

i am living my life simply and lifeless.. okay la.. i am abit more xinfu cos ive got a partner by my side.. someone that is more than a dear friend.. someone that u can spend ur days with and depend on.. to say it simply.. u exploit him la.. lol.. cos u cant exploit a friend ma.. he he he.. of cos at the same time, he exploits u too =.=

i am so sian now! dun wanna study arh!!!

i M a lazy pig who does nth but eat n sleep the whole day long.. and of cos either play com or watch tv..

everyday i am just waiting.. for dear to book out... i think i am lifeless..



waiting is really xinku.. man..

how i wish he can quickly ORD..



i just came back from his house.. cos i wanted to see him badly.. so i went to find him without telling him =X


counting down to june 2008..

BANG! 1 month down.. 14 more months to go..


*slap self* shaddup and go slp la.. talk so much~ *grumbles*

wanna noe what i ve doing since mock exam?



Nothing...


at all...



Other than the revision starting recently.. i am absolutely slacking all the way.. refusing to study more..

cos i think theres still 1 month more to the final exam and since i ve study enough during mock.. i only need to revise them.. haha..

although i think dear might be right that im having no pimples when im studying.. still.. lz ma.. he he..


well, i am so "free" now i might be able to go out now n then.. if there wasnt for the stupid aircon man to come and fix our broken aircons!!



my windows vista nearly broke down bcos i installed alcohol 120%, but luckily i am able to revive the whole com again.. else games like Sims2, oblivion, civ4, RO would perished from the face of my com together.. whew!

yea that desktop of my bro's, not mine, is for gaming purposes.. so i only use it when i wanna play my game, other than the game that is not compatible with vista.. *sian 1/2*



i think i might wanna start working after final exams and all the way.. cos i would really slack for the 3 whole months not going to sch!

so i was thinking..

if jo going to quit her job, shall we find one together next time? or u planning to do something else le?

well, tell me abt it when i see u online bah.. ja neh~!

Avril Lavigne - Girlfriend

[Chorus]
Hey! Hey! You! You!
I don't like your girlfriend!
No way! No way!
I think you need a new one
Hey! Hey! You! You!
I could be your girlfriend

Hey! Hey! You! You!
I know that you like me
No way! No way!
No it's not a secret
Hey! Hey! You! You!
I want to be your girlfriend

You're so fine
I want you mine
You're so delicious
I think about ya all the time
You're so addictive
Don't you know what I could do to make you feel alright?
(alright alright alright alright)
Don't pretend I think you know I'm damn precious
Hell yeah
I'm a mother fucking princess
I can tell you like me too and you know I'm right
(I'm right I'm right I'm right)

She's like so whatever
You could do so much better
I think we should get together now
And that's what everyone's talking about!

[Chorus]
Hey! Hey! You! You!
I don't like your girlfriend!
No way! No way!
I think you need a new one
Hey! Hey! You! You!
I could be your girlfriend

Hey! Hey! You! You!
I know that you like me
No way! No way!
No it's not a secret
Hey! Hey! You! You!
I want to be your girlfriend

I can see the way, I see the way you look at me
And even when you look away I know you think of me
I know you talk about me all the time again and again
(and again and again and again)
So come over here, tell me what I want to hear

Better yet make your girlfriend disappear
I don't want to hear you say her name ever again
(And again and again and again!)

She's like so whatever
You could do so much better
I think we should get together now
And that's what everyone's talking about!

[Chorus]
Hey! Hey! You! You!
I don't like your girlfriend!
No way! No way!
I think you need a new one
Hey! Hey! You! You!
I could be your girlfriend

Hey! Hey! You! You!
I know that you like me
No way! No way!
No it's not a secret
Hey! Hey! You! You!
I want to be your girlfriend

In a second you'll be wrapped around my finger
Cause I can, cause I can do it better
There's no other
So when's it gonna sink in
She's so stupid
What the hell were you thinking?

In a second you'll be wrapped around my finger
Cause I can, cause I can do it better
There's no other
So when's it gonna sink in
She's so stupid
What the hell were you thinking?

[Chorus]
Hey! Hey! You! You!
I don't like your girlfriend!
No way! No way!
I think you need a new one
Hey! Hey! You! You!
I could be your girlfriend

Hey! Hey! You! You!
I know that you like me
No way! No way!
No it's not a secret
Hey! Hey! You! You!
I want to be your girlfriend
No Way No Way...
Hey Hey

okay.. tag game.. i ve been tagged so...

5 things you might not know about me:

1. i refuse to wear bikini cos i am self aware of my own figure..
2. im an extremely boring person..
3. i love to use my computer so much, even if its just clicking rubbish..
4. i think alot but dunno how to convey it well..
5. i can DO stuffs, but lazy to do them.. hehe..


5 following taggers:
1. xiuxian
2. shujun
3. kaiwen
4. jiejin
5. joanne

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its last thurs that xiuxian n yewen came my hse to bbq.. of cos we use my parent's electric grill..

like i say, luckily my mum's not in, else she would xia dao and thought the houses on fire LOL..

ate and clean the kitchen..

i went to bath and we played sims for a while b4 we started on playing monopoly.. had fun(cos i won LOL) cos its been ages since we played monopoly..

mother bought food for us cos papa nv come home to eat.. watched tv n then they went home ard 8+


fri came and i was staying at home trying to install internet and games in my new desktop..

sat - i went to dear's hse and i went down to swim.. after which i bathed, we went to TM to eat ajisen n watched music n lyrics..

sun, mon n today were slacking days.. my bro bought a new game so we played Oblivion together..


oh n i finished watching ai qing mo fa shi le!! nvm bored ppl r like that one.. keep watching tb like me.. hahaha.. =X not that im referring to u all but =X hehe.. bye!

entertainment of the day..

hmm? what is ben doing?


oh it's sunbathing.. haha..


look here and smile!

HaPPy 1 YeAr Anniversary to mY Cutest Kevin!! LOL.. (o.^)

so fast orh.. not too long, not too short too..

although not celebrating today.. but i feel so happy thinking abt the past year we ve been together.. and wishing for more of these years to come =P

just want to say, i am happy to ve found u.. u make my loopholes seem small when im with u.. for these moment, i could really dun care abt my image and be myself.. i love the smiles and even the tears when it comes to you.. although our relationship is simple, i love the simplicity for it is with less worries and less complicated.. just to be with you is all i care about.. *pls be at my side for as long as possible..*

socie finally finished on last wed.. went out with yinghui, william, alvin and his fren.. the girls din come for the mock i think cos din see them.. anyway, i took cab with the girl and william to ps while alvin n yh ride bike there.. found them in the arcade.. went to eat long john for lunch... was hungry after the 3 hrs pp.. walked ard somemore.. after the girl left, the 4 of us went paradiz to play billiard.. of cos i din join, just watched.. was really tired after the pp liao.. so while watching them, i also wanting to sleep ahaha.. they also tired cos the last 2 balls hit until very long.. left the place ard 5 plus.. were initially tryin to wait for 502 home.. then will was meeting his gf ard 7.30pm so had nth to do for the moment.. alvin accompany him.. yh wanted to go for work one but they persuade him to go watch 300 with them so he got urgent leave.. haha.. i just accompany them to buy tix and then we went gelare to eat abit b4 dinner.. after that, i took 502 home for dinner..

then i slack all the way, cos the last mock pp is next wed which is programming.. so leave it to next week to study haha..

sat.. dear came to buy me lunch.. and then we waited for my bro to book out b4 we went to suntec to join my parents to go IT fair.. my cousin was there too cos she needed buy a com too.. ate dinner at surf N turf b4 going to the fair.. bought acer desktop without the monitor(cos resolution not high enuff).. specs quite good though.. was 1699 then after minusing monitor and adding to 2 gb RAM its 1707.. cheap rite.. my cousin went to buy acer laptop haha.. after that we went home already lo.. delivery is on wed..

today went cine with dear to watch 'im a cyborg'.. after that went to walk around taka buy finger food to eat as lunch haha.. walked ard taka to look at shoes n bags.. of cos din get anything lo.. so just went home le.. was planning to take 502 one.. waited for what seems like eternity b4 the bus came n -.- the bus was packed!! so decided to take the train and walked home.. wasted our time man.. shite.. gw was preparing to book in while i reached home so dear waited for him as well so they could take the train together.. well.. thats my day..

1st yr anni is coming but theres nth to celebrate.. lol.. like i say b4, hes not out and im gonna study so.. too bad for me.. although im not sure if its too bad for him not.. haha..

Tata!

mock period.. abit stress.. go out also stress.. haha..

lately went out cos wanna relax.. been cooped in the house for few weeks already.. sat went to marina with dear dear... ate burger king for lunch/dinner around 4?? dunno.. lol then played his DS.. walked more.. and then went to suntec?? i already forgot where we went already lol.. i think we went carrefour.. oh yea suntec.. cos my parents were there booking tickets to go shanghai -.-'' but i din go find them though.. i just noe they r there.. erm.. i think we went home around 9.. me n bro ate a whole roasted chicken that my mum bought in carrefour for supper.. lol.. dear went home around 10 plus..

sunday.. met xx n yw at lot 1.. we were planning to eat suki sushi to celebrate xx's bday.. then ard 2, sj came to join us.. the 5 of us went back to jp.. lol.. and went to delifrance for a really slacking session.. ate fondant and ice cream.. and drank mocha.. after eating the sushi.. very shen qi rite? LOL.. oh why we nv take photo sia?? i long time nv take with u girls liao leh.. aiyo..
while the sisters went home, sj pei us and we went to the comic connection.. nth to look at.. and then went home.. ready to eat another round of good food.. haha.. its amazing my tummy is still that small.. (sheesh..)

oh btw.. psycho pp was fine on last friday.. din really finish in time but overall still satisfied.. but today's stats pp totally suck.. no time to finish the 2 hr paper.. crap la.. then so many dunno how to do.. final pp how?? i hope its easy enough.. like the past yr pp.. haiz.. read the past yr pp also no use sia..

tmr got socie.. and i haven eat lunch yet.. later studying last chap.. dun feel like studying.. lol.. well.. gotta go.. cya..